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Curi-YAAS Convo with Veronica Q&A!

Episode 72 and 74 featured Veronica, a crossdresser living in Seattle

How old are you and where you from?

 48 going on 28, I was born in Helsinki, brought up in Vancouver, BC, spent 10 years on the east coast and then I’ve lived in Seattle since then

How long have you crossdressed?

Since I was about 8, I think

Are you heterosexual? Bisexual? Unsure?

I could be labeled as on the straight side.  I am sexually attracted to the female form.

Are you currently in a relationship?

Yes, married with two kids, 7 & 9

How important is passing to you?

I like to be perceived as a woman rather than a man dressed as a woman.  I won’t change my voice because it is just too much work to do that but if I fool somebody to the point of thinking that I’m a woman until I speak, I’ve done well!

What would you like to do with your crossdressing moving forward?

I would like to keep getting more open about it by baby steps. My extended family might end up finding out and that might be a relief for me… and maybe even them.

Are you public about your crossdressing?

Yes, except for my extended family.  Not so public that I would post my VeronicaLove5000 to my own facebook.

What’s your favorite thing to wear? What would you say your style is?

I love legwear like pantyhose and tights.  I would say classic and pretty.  I love fit and flare dresses and 1950s style.

What do you wish you did differently in your life?

Possibly starting public crossdressing much earlier in life.  It would have been great to have styled my natural blonde hair rather than wearing wigs.  Too late for that now… haha!

What advice would you give to other crossdressers or those questioning 
their gender or sex?

First thing is that repressing it will end up being as successful in your mind as prohibition was in USA.  Second is that coming out, generally, is much worse in your mind than it is in real life.  Lastly, talk to people in the community that you identify with.

Why did you come on the podcast? [Would you recommend others to come 
on the podcast?]

I heard the podcast and immediately it felt like a breath of fresh air for crossdressers.  I wanted to talk to Giselle pretty immediately and, true to her word, she responded immediately and got me on the podcast at lightning speed. I friend of mine already wants to come on the podcast.

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Curi-Yaas Convo with Maria Q&A!

Episode 67 and 69 features Maria, a Filipino crossdresser from New York. Here’s our little Q&A with her.

How old are you and where you from?

I am 30 years old born in NJ. My parents are 1st generation immigrants from the Philippines.

How long have you crossdressed?

Since a young age. I’ve been seriously dressing for 9 years.

Are you heterosexual? Bisexual? Unsure?

Heterosexual. 1 on the Kinsey scale.

Are you currently in a relationship?

I am! I actually started my relationship with my SO as Maria.

How important is passing to you?

It was extremely important when I first started. I still take it into consideration, but not to the same extent.

What would you like to do with your crossdressing moving forward?

I’d like to keep building my wardrobe to include casual attire and continue improving my makeup skills.

Are you public about your crossdressing?

Public to my close friends, coworkers, immediate family, and SO. Not public on social media.

What’s your favorite thing to wear? What would you say your style is?

Dresses and heels! A mix of girly, sophisticated, and chic. 9/10 times I am wearing a skirt but it can range from a flirty a-line to a business pencil skirt.

What do you wish you did differently in your life?

One of my sayings in life is don’t regret the things you’ve done, regret what you haven’t done.

What advice would you give to other crossdressers or those questioning their gender or sex?

Confidence is key. Find someone to confide in. This could be online or IRL. Experiment and push your boundaries.

Why did you come on the podcast? [Would you recommend others to come on the podcast?]

I felt my story is relatable yet unique. I have a feel good story that I think other crossdressers can appreciate. I would recommend it as it’s nice to talk to another person in the community

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Curi-YAAS Convo with Chrissy Mano Q&A!

Episode 61 features guest Chrissy Mano. Here’s our Q&A with her.

How old are you, and where you from?

I was born in 1987 (32 right now) and I am from Australia but currently living in Israel

How long have you crossdressed?

I have been crossdressing for the past 20+ years since I was 9-10 years old

Are you heterosexual? Bisexual? Unsure?

I am married to a woman but I’m not attracted to women. I identify as a Queer individual because I know I am gay but not fully gay

Are you currently in a relationship?

I am married to my wife, we have been married for 8 years

How important is passing to you?

Well my image on Instagram, passing is super important but if I’m able to go out dressed it won’t be as important

What would you like to do with your crossdressing moving forward?

Teach society that it’s normal, teach people to wear what makes them comfortable and I want to be Chrissy 24/7 without anyone trying to hurt me

Are you public about your crossdressing?

If Instagram counts as public then definitely yes 😅 but in real life I’m really private about it

What’s your favorite thing to wear? What would you say your style is?

Stockings and heels are everything for me. I like to wear sexy fashion styles and girly fashion styles, anything that is tight on the top part of my body is a must and the bottom part is more free like a wide skirt or short dresses

What do you wish you did differently in your life?

That I didn’t come to Israel

What advice would you give to other crossdressers or those questioning their gender or sex?

E,E,E,E
Explore, Experience, Enjoy and Evolve

Why did you come on the podcast? [Would you recommend others to come on the podcast?)

I was inspired by so many people talking about their stories and what they’ve been through I’ve felt like maybe I should to because I heard it takes a lot off of your chest kinda like therapy and it truly was a great experience. I would recommend anyone to do this

Find Chrissy Mano on Instagram

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Q&A with Special CD Guest Diane

How old are you, and where you from?

30 years old, and I’m from Pennsylvania

How long have you crossdressed?

7 Years

Are you heterosexual? Bisexual? Unsure?

I’ve been with a guy (while I was “dressed”). But wasn’t super into it. So I’d say heterosexual?

Are you currently in a relationship?

No, not at the moment.

How important is passing to you?

It’s definitely a goal, but that won’t stop me from going out to “safe places.” If I was fully, 100%, no doubt passable, I would go out anywhere.

What would you like to do with your crossdressing moving forward?

Go out to more public places. Have more experiences “dressed.” And make a social circle around it with safe people in a safe environment.

Are you public about your crossdressing?

Unfortunately, no I am not public. Just because I knew it would be a whole “thing.” I wish it wouldn’t be a “thing,” but I’m afraid of how being open about my crossdressing may affect potential relationships. I just am not necessarily willing to risk my current social life because of it.


What’s your favorite thing to wear? What would you say your style is?

Pretty much maxi dresses or summer dresses. I hate skinny jeans.

What do you wish you did differently in your life?

If I knew the crossdressing was here to stay, I’d open up about it earlier in my life. But I think at the same time that’s easier said than done, because the bullying with peers “if it goes bad” could be much worse. Also, if your parents react bad to it then that could get complicated really quickly. But If it goes well. You’d be more free as an adult. I guess the real answer is… get rid of the risk/potential pain as soon as possible.


What advice would you give to other crossdressers or those questioning their gender or sex?

When starting out, try to invest in “normal looking” clothes. Look at what women around you wear and kinda imitate it while making it your own. A few reasons. The first being, I think it would make it easier for people to accept you. Second, if someone finds your stash and all you have is lingerie, it’s going to be real hard to explain that it’s not a fetish. If it is a fetish, then fine. But people don’t like knowing about other people’s kinks if not solicited. It’s like everything. People say be you. And that works to some extent. Maybe you’d like being naked at your house. But you can’t be THAT kinda you outside.

Why did you come on the podcast? [Would you recommend others to come on the podcast?]

Because I was looking to know myself better by finding about other people like me. How they feel and what they go through. And yes for sure. I highly recommend others to be on the podcast. Giselle is a bit of a bad influence, but the best kind of bad influence anyone could get!

The CrossYaas Podcast wants to thank Diane for coming onto the podcast and sharing her story and if anyone else is looking to share their story, please email Giselle@crossyaaspodcast.com and chat Giselle up!