In episode 87, Emma Scarlet shares stories of her life and what it’s like living a secret crossdressing life living in Indiana. Here is a quick Q & A we have with her.
How old are you and where are you from?
I’m 45 and from Indiana.
What brings you to the podcast?
A common acquaintance told me about it.
Are you a crossdresser?
Yes I am.
Do you identify as transgender?
I don’t identify as trans, although I have trans elements in my life.
How would you classify your sexuality?
Not sure. Androgynous/non- binary perhaps
Are you open about your crossdressing/sexuality/gender?
I am NOT open or out publicly. A handful of friends know.
Are you in a relationship? Does your partner know?
I’m married and yes, she knows I crossdress
In the conversation you had with Giselle, you talk about cheating on your wife. What made you do that?
I cheated because I wanted to experience people and sex in different ways. I did it because I could and yearned to be appreciated and objectified.
How much do you love your wife?
I love her very much
Seriously, why is your wife so amazing?
She doesn’t believe in quitting and her Dad quit on her and her sister and she didn’t want that for our kids.
What would you say is a key to a long lasting healthy marriage?
COMMUNICATION
How important is passing to you?
Passing is very important to me, I am not passable and probably another reason I don’t go out much.
What would you say your style is? How did you develop it?
My style is still developing. I love cute skirts and camisole’s. I love a little black dress.
What’s your favorite thing to wear?
My favorite thing to wear is a black cami, an oversized shirt that hangs off my shoulder and a black satin slip. Pretty much my pj’s.
What do you wish you did differently in your life?
I wish I transitioned at a young age or come out completely and honestly upfront with my now wife early in our relationship.
What advice would you give to other crossdressers?
Be yourself and love yourself, it’s who you are and you are loved.
Would you recommend others to come on the podcast? Why or why not?
I would highly recommend others come on the podcast. It’s cathartic to hear your own story and deal with what you’ve done or not done.