Episode 107 has Giselle in her feelings about her Coachella past. She also talks panty selection in this week's CrossYAAS tip of the week, and she introduces a new segment entitled Grinding Giselle's Gears where she discusses an issue that is bothering her recently, with this week being nail polish.
Meegan returns to The CrossYAAS Podcast in episode 106 to update Giselle about how different her life has been in the past year. She talks about the issues she had coming out to her mom, why her sister has learned to accept her, and what she's learned about herself since first coming out in episode 48.
Episode 105 has Giselle and Sierra discuss the reasons behind their very much needed break from the podcast, current events including the Derek Chauvin trial conviction, as well what to expect from them moving forward with the CrossYAAS podcast.
In episodes 103 and 104, Hope from Tennessee comes on the podcast to tell her story. Here's our Q&A with her.
How old are you and where are you from?
I am 53 years old and I am originally from Tennessee.
What brings you to the podcast?
Giselle and I met years ago when she started the podcast, and I've followed along the entire way. I figured it was time I was on as a guest.
Are you a crossdresser?
Technically yes, but I do not use that term to describe myself often.
Are you open about your crossdressing/sexuality/gender? What was that coming out process like? Do you wish you could tell more people?
I am open to anyone who can understand and stay positive about it. I do not flaunt it, but I don't hide from it either.
Were you surprised about the reactions you got in coming out to people?
It's been a mixed bag for me. For a long time I had no problem telling anyone. I found out in some cases it's just easier and/or better not to bring it up.
Do you identify as transgender? Why or why not?
I do personally identify that way. I know that the way I feel about gender and myself and how I present, that it falls under the definition of being transgender.
Have you ever thought of transitioning? Either medically transitioning or socially transitioning?
Yes. I actually consider myself in transition. Because, as we know, everyone's journey is different. I will likely never take HRT, so the things I do now with diet, exercise and grooming all contribute to the way I present in both male and female roles.
How would you classify your sexuality?
I consider myself straight.
How important is passing to you?
Passing is important to me as far as blending in when in public. I prefer to go out and not be noticed. So, that is the focus of my transformation.
What have you done to enhance your female persona?
As stated before, I've done a lot of training in attempt to build my body to be more femme in shape. It's not the same as HRT, but it has served me well over the years and I'm proud of what I have accomplished in that way.
What would you say your style is? How did you develop it?
What I prefer is BoHo or vintage style clothing. I could do a better job of developing that look. It something I always work towards.
What's your favorite thing to wear?
I have to say jeans and boots with a flowing top.
What do you wish you did differently in your life? Do you have any regrets?
I do not live with regrets, I have none.
What advice would you give to other crossdressers/transgender people?
Find your community! There are many outlets for support, but it does take work to find the one that fits you best. Many of us share the same feeling and fears, but you have to look hard to find those with a common ground.
Would you recommend others to come on the podcast? Why or why not?
I have recommended at least one guest already! And I know several others that would be a good show!
Episode 104 has the second part and conclusion of Giselle's Curi - YAAS conversation with Hope.